You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

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p. 37 - We are not ourselves with soulmates. It is all about making the relationship work in such a self-less way that the self disappears. (my paraphrase). What kills this relationship is that you feel too much not yourself. She talks about core needs. "Our core needs are not only the motivator for any relationship we enter into, they are also the baramoter for whether or not it will last or not." Early in life our core needs are socially based. That is what drives people to marry their soul mate. The commonest dating mistake people make in their attempt to find love is looping through a cycle of dating the same type of wrong person for so long before letting themselves go to find the third type of love. This is what Kate Rose meant when she explained that, “When we don’t learn the necessary lessons we need to, we repeat specific phases until we are able to find our twin flame.” After being exhausted from trying and trying again, you leave without regrets or self-blame, realising that you deserve someone who puts the same effort into loving you as you do for them. Falling In Love The Third Time The Twin Flame comes into our lives and often we don't even know it's love because . . . it's too easy. This is the love who helps us to accept ourselves just as we are because this is precisely what they do. The Twin Flame comes into our lives and often we don’t even know it’s love because . . . it’s too easy. This is the love who helps us to accept ourselves just as we are because this is precisely what they do.

What it really comes down to is if we are limited by how we love, or instead love without limits. We can all choose to stay with our first love, the one that looks good and will make everyone else happy. We can choose to stay with our second under the belief that if we don’t have to fight for it, then it’s not worth having—or we can make the choice to believe in the third love. This is the love that appeals to what we should be doing for society’s sake—and probably our families. We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be. Many people get married without experiencing the electrifying feelings of being in love. Several people, likely including you, have been in a relationship without feeling deeply in love with their partner. That is to say that not all your past relationships are borne out of falling in love. Amazing, if you have not already, you would truly fall in love only three times in your lifetime. Falling In Love The First Time Wow! This resonates with me so much. I’m currently going through a breakup from my “karmic love” (which according to this is love #2). This explains my former relationship to a T... it’s actually freaky.

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The second type of love is when shit gets real. It’s called the “hard love”. This is where we delve deep into our sexuality, our desires and begin answering the question: Who am I? It is easy to worry and focus on the things going wrong rather than the things going right. When we worry, we are draining ourselves, leaving us tired and weary. And that is exactly what the devil wants. He whispers in our ears all the negative aspects of a day, which can easily lead to anxiety and worry. Be strong and try to focus on the positive things. It’s better to focus on at least one positive thought amongst a thousand negative ones instead of focusing wholly on the negative. This is the love that breaks us. This time, we are trying to do things differently but we unconsciously unravel this love in the process. You genuinely fall in love this time with the expectation that we can make it work. This time, it’s not about how it appeals to society and family but rather we love our partner for who they are, irrespective of what society or family think.

Well, the first one all begins when we’re young. It’s called the “idealistic love”. It’s kind of like a fairy tale. We believe we’re doing it for our family and society. The first love is the love that feels right. It is what is closest to the fairy tale love stories you may have read or heard of. It is the love that appeals to what society thinks about love and you might do stupid things for its sake. Again, there's no science shared why there's only 3. She shared anecdotes and stories, but is there data to prove the theme of the book? The third type of love comes out of nowhere. When you meet this person, you’d never consider that you’d end up with them.

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A girl can never have too much chocolate, and a guy who gets a girl chocolate obviously knows the way to her heart. 🍫 It is the love we never see coming and shows up unannounced. It comes for you at the time you least expected and it just fits. You no longer have to hide your flaws and imperfections; they accept you for who you are. It comes so easy it does not seem possible and the connection sweeps you off the ground because you never planned for it. This love shows you what love is about and you will never need to look for another. Why We Have To Fall In Love Three Times This is the love that feels right. You probably first experienced this love while in high school. It is the idealistic love that feels perfect just like the love in fairy tails.

At times you’ll think that you’re both fated to be together forever. At other times, you’ll want to bite each other’s heads off. I don't have anything against loving ourselves. Of course, leaving some love for ourselves is very important for a balance love. But at the end, she's summarized that if you are not currently with your "twin flame" or you've decided to walk away from that that it's ok because you only truly need yourself and not another's love. In some degree that can be true, especially if the love you are gravitating towards to is toxic. However, let's not lead females to think that they will be fine without a man in their life. There's plenty of research/data that shows that couples that are married are happier people than those that are single. Why push the "love yourself more" theme, when it is proven that no man's an island? The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.” – Albert EinsteinThe author writes in a way that speaks to you personally. And it did speak to me. So there are three kinds of love you face in your love life - the torrential first love with our Soulmate, the even more torrential love with our Karmic Partner, and the Final One - also known as the Twin Flame. A fellow bookstagrammer had posted about this book and it completely intrigued me by the title alone! Reason being, in my twenties I read once that there isn't just one person for you out there, there's three people in fact. I believed it ever since and I found that I, in fact, experienced each of these loves. This book details each of these loves and shows you that you need to go through the first two loves to finally find your one true last love. This theory supposes that we only fall in love once in our entire lifetime and that the rest are not exactly “falling in love”. This theory believes that we all have a soulmate, and even when things do not go on between us and our soulmate, we still have a place for them in our hearts.